Who Has Sexual Behavior Problems?

What we don't know won't hurt us. While this may be technically true to some extent, it's also a self-defeating philosophy. Just because we don't realize or acknowledge something doesn't mean it's not happening yet. Take for example sexual behavior problems. Lots of people think they have healthy sexual behavior just because they're doing what other people are doing when it comes to sexual activities. What they don't know is that they're already suffering an abnormal condition that needs to be addressed.

Sexual behavior problems are manifested in various ways. There are: the addiction to sexually explicit materials, paraphilia or having sexual fetishes, irresistible urge to avail of prostitute services, and coercion or the use of force to exert oneself sexually. Some of these behaviors may even be deemed by some as normal and merely a stage in one's early adult life. But, cliché as it is, anything too much is bad.

Staying up all night just to pore over sexually explicit or pornographic materials—usually secretly—is already considered a behavioral problem. Addiction to pornography reduces the person's previously high sensitivity to soft porn. Then, if not curbed or controlled, it may lead to the use of materials that have extremely sexual and violent content, such as images and videos of torture, rape, and group sex.

Likewise, getting aroused with a non-sexually stimulating inanimate object already means you have a sexual behavioral disorder. This is called paraphilia, in which the person has sexual fetishes about which he/ she fantasizes about doing extreme and not so normal sexual activities.

Another abnormal behavior that can be categorized under paraphilia is that which is done by "flashers." Most of you have probably heard of or even experienced being victimized by public exhibitionists. These people find it sexually arousing to show his/her private parts to an unsuspecting person in public. They like it better when their victim gets obviously embarrassed or humiliated.

There is also what we call histrionic personality disorder. More women suffer from this condition than men. This behavioral problem prompts one to use his/ her body, sex appeal, and sexuality to attract others' attention. People with this disorder usually display extremely seductive and emotional behavior. And because attention and attachment mean security for them, they have a great tendency to get involved in multiply sexual relationships. One of the reasons is that sexual intercourse helps them boost their self esteem and worth.

These behavioral problems make one undergo so various emotional dispositions such as denial, despair, and hopelessness. And these are exacerbated by one's denial and refusal to seek help because he/she is too embarrassed to admit and openly talk about it. Thus, such behavioral problems also result to ruined relationships and strained physical, emotional, and spiritual health.

These are just some of the sexual behavior problems, and the list is quite long. Whether you already know you're suffering from any of such conditions or you're still suspecting you have a behavioral disorder, it would be best to seek professional help right away.

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